Teasing can be defined as human interactions, and it has
three categories or forms, educative, playful and hurtful. It can have variety
of effects depending on how it is utilized and its intended end results. When
the teasing is playful and friendly and when is reciprocal, it can be called
flirting. But when teasing is not welcomed it can be regard as harassment or
mobbing like in the work place or as a form of bullying and emotional abuse.
Sometimes when is done in public it can be called or regards as humiliation.
Teasing is not so bad sometimes it can be educative when it is used as a way of
informal learning, the good example is some adults often tease children to
playful illustrate and teach them how their behavior negatively affect the
community.
Effect of teasing
1. Teasing your children can have negative effect on her
self-esteem; teasing is can be regard as ineffective parenting, and if your
continue belittling and teasing interactions with your child, it might cause
behavioral issues with your children.
2. The effects can be that the child will
use this as a tool to use against her siblings and peers and definitely
bullying wills occurs.
3. The parent must be mindful not to use words which can be
hurtful such as dummy, jerk, loser, and idiot this will give a child inadequacy
behaviors.
4. Teasing if not control it can cross the line and verbal
abuse will be the results. As time goes by verbal abuse and teasing in
conjunction with physical abuse can teach kids the same behavior.
5. Teasing can also lead to depression and it is the serious
mental condition that may require medical evaluation.
6. If the children cannot
cope with teasing he may begin to show signs of depression such as sadness, low
self-esteem, detachment from the family and friends, regular absenteeism at
school, poor concentration and low levels on school work, and suicide might be
an option.
7.The recent studies have shown the spate of school shootings
in which teasing has been implicated as the cause and that attitude is being
now question.
8. The effect can be the long-lasting one if not dealt with
properly.Their anger of being teased festers even to their adult’s lives.The parents can encourage the youngster to try to keep her
emotions cool or in check if she is hurtful by jokes. The children should tell
the person who tease her that teasing bothers’ her.
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