How to give spanking

Spanking is described as form of corporal punishment consists of striking the buttocks of another person to cause temporary pain. It happens when an open hand is used and in some countries and spanking is referred to in some countries as slapping or smacking. We have various forms spanking such as belting; canning, whipping and birching involve the use of implement instead of a hand. The most commonly use discipline used in child, infant or child, Is corporal punishment. It generally in involves an adult, parent, guardian or teacher striking the child’s buttocks as punishment for unwanted or unacceptable. Generally boys are naughty than girls and get spanked most.

How to administered  Spanking 

 

1.       Before you announce spanking be 100% positive that you want to spank your child instead of issuing non-physical punishment like timeouts or denial of privileges.

2.       Explain to your child what they did wrong and which better choices he could have made instead. There should be an open conversation in which the child can ask questions to understand exactly what is required of him or her.

3.       Decide on the place where the spanking will be administered. Spanking inn front of others or friends is embarrassing for your child. Be careful to make sure your child learning better behavior and privacy is important

4.       When you child has earned spanking take him or her for a walk and talk calmly with them. The walk will give you a chance to clear your head and calm down, and is important to always be calm and clear of any angel when administered.

5.       Once you have reached your destination and have come to a clear understanding announce the consequences of the child actions will be spanking. The child is a bit angry and resentful and you should understand of these reactions but you need to stand your ground.

6.       Tell the child that they should remain in position and tell them would be unwise if they attempt, to block or otherwise resist the punishment. Don’t talk during spanking and save any talk for any spanking is done.

7.       Don’t hit the child very hard and listen to child responses and know if you are hitting your children too hard. You must avoid causing injuries when you hit the child and keep a safe distance from dangerous areas.

8.       Afterwards affirm your child and tell them that you just do it because you love them and discipline is part of that love.

9.       Tell your child you love them no matter what and telling a child that you love them after hitting them can lead to equating hitting with love.