Responsibility

• The most important aspect of taking responsibility for one’s life is to acknowledge that your life is your responsibility.

•  People can guide us but they cannot live your life for you.

•  We can’t blame other people for the bad things or events of our life. 

• The good or the bad things happening in our lives are the results of the choices we have made and making. 
• The good example is of three gentlemen who appear before the parole board seeking parole for themselves, they could not accept the responsibility of being in jail them blame the situation or other people. 

• People forget that most of the time we learn from our mistakes, and if we deny our mistakes there is no way we will and improved from them.

•  The important lesson in life is every bad experience or mistakes are part of our life story. 

• The biggest mistake people often commit is to avoid making mistakes, learning from each chapter of their lives. 

• We must listen to the inner voice in your head and picture yourself talking with coworkers, family members, and friends and ask yourself that are you taking responsibility or you blame:
  

o   Listen to the voice in your head and if blame excuses play back repeatedly in your mind it simple means your shift responsibility for your decisions and the life of the others

o   Secondly listen to yourself when you speak or do you hear yourself blame others for things that you failed to do or as you want. If your hear the blaming voice you can stop them.

o   Thirdly if the person you respect supplies feedback that you make excuses and you blame others for your woes. If is the case then control your defensive reaction and deepen you’re thought. People who take feedback seriously attract or get more feedback.

• The other important thing is to look our behavior if our relationship with other people failed. 

• People will response the way you treating them and if you are angry you will receive angry response. 

• The reality is that if you approach situation in positive way and open frame of mind the results will be considered different with positive outcomes

•  Remember that nothing is finished until it is done, do not let those threads run through your define you’re the whole pictures, instead highlight the threads of joy and love you can weave into your life, and it’s your choice.