Loneliness

Loneliness can be best described as an emotional state in which a person experience a feeling of emptiness and being isolated. It can say is more than just the feeling of wanting company to do something with another person. It can be associated with the feeling of being cut off, disjoint, and alienated from other people, so that it is not easy to have a contact with human. It the perception of being anyone and isolated that matters most. It is the feeling we get when our need for particular contact is not met or achieve.

Causes of loneliness

 

• ·         Loneliness can be attributed to the genetics and moving to the new location and perhaps a divorce, and physical isolation.
• ·         The other factor is the loss of the important person in the family or a close associates. It can be a symptom of psychological disorder like depression.
• ·         Loneliness is complex, change and personal intrinsic factors are the biggest causes of loneliness.
• ·         The client who admits that they get a lot of attention can also be feeling lonely.
• ·          Lack of social interaction from childhood and adolescence or the absence of meaningful role model can also causes adult loneliness.
• ·         The lack of communication between you and the client and assisting him how to learn to cope with changes in life patterns and it will help in client in overcoming loneliness.

The effect of loneliness

• ·         The client will not function normally because of poor sleep causes by loneliness, it can turn to illness or sick from stress.
• ·         The other effects are social withdrawal where the client becomes lonely and remove him, she from situations.
• ·         The social isolation is another effect the client experiences loneliness no longer feel comfortable or confident to socialize with others.
• ·         Loneliness can occur after the marriage or any major life event, and birth of a child.
• ·         Loneliness again can occur in close relationship or marriage when the couples anger/resentment or lack of loving or communication.
• ·         You were abandoning at some time in life and being alone with being unloved or neglected.
• ·         Time spent being alone sometimes can make time spent with others even more enjoyable.