Monday 16 February 2015

How to love unconditionally



Unconditional love is known as affection without any limitations, or love without conditions. It says love in a relationship begins with oneself. To set unconditional love foundation for long lasting relationship it requires self-esteem and self-confidence. You need to feel good about yourself, like yourself and recognize the positive qualities you bring to a relationship. It can further say you can stand on your own two feet s individual without the help of a romantic partner to define you or complete you


  • ·         You need to improve your self-esteem or don’t feel confident in yourself as capable, valuable person and then your relationship will suffer.
  • ·         The best thing you can do for your relationship is to love yourself. You can offer unconditional love to yourself it means you are able to view yourself as lovable and worthy.
  • ·         Unconditional love is the ability to love the other person as they are in their essence.
  • ·          You must allow yourself to be a witness to your judgment about him and let negative though and feelings freely come and go inside your brain and body without you treating him in dictated or allowing it to make you feel less of a person.
  • ·         When you find someone who loves you as you are and you are able to love them as they are, its amazing experience.
  • ·         Unconditional love of good relationship is like a dance in which both partners participate.
  • ·         The couples should know their own personal boundaries and the limits of what you find to be acceptable and healthy behaviors and reactions from your beloved.
  • ·         When partners are aware of their personal boundaries and are committed to communicating them in loving and non-threatening ways, the relationship can continues to recalibrate and grow strong over the years.
  • ·         Always ask yourself, what is the most loving thing I can do for this loving person in this particular moment. It is anew decision you need to make in every situation, not a hard and fast rule you can apply to everyone all the time.
  • ·         In religion, unconditional love is part of the four loves; affection, friendship, romance and unconditional.

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