Monday 2 March 2015

Can trust save a relationship?



We can say trust is something which must be earned and it is not good for person to assume that because he/she have asked for forgiveness. Trust can says that it is the begin of everything that relationship needed. Once is broken it will take time to restore or rebuild trust. The process to restore will need accurate and correct application of the direction till you know what is trust and forgiveness. 

Trust can be restored but though it takes time and when you are hurt it will takes time to heal. While in the process don’t make unrealistic demands but it will depend on the seriousness of the matter. You have more time to prove to our partner that she is reliable and you can listen her words again you have make peace with it and be responsible for the wrongs you done. You must pay attention to the tone of your voice and choice your words.

Trust is the bedrock of what makes a relationship works and it is fundamental process of love and when trust goes it goes with many things such as security, love and friendship,insecurity,anxiety,fear and lastly the person will monitor your phone. Trust can be lost through rage, lies, violence, and drug and alcohol abuse and resulted in sexual infidelity.

You must remember forgiveness is not an option for the Christian and forgiveness is from God. Be kind and compassionate to your spouse or partner, and forgiveness one another as God has done to you. The books will also play a part in rebuilding trust between the spouses. The partners are also encouraged to consult professional or counselors and they will be happier to assist you in any way they can do.

The spouses or partners need time to heal and forgive, and do not be disappointed if things do not go the way you expected them to be. The partner who committed mistake he/she also need time to heal and it will be upon them how longs they will as we vary. You should stand by your words and do what you says that will help to rebuild the trust your partner has in you.

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