Saturday 31 January 2015

Yes you can-LOVE



Love is a special and complicated emotion which is difficult to understand. It when two people who care for one another makes their lives together, build a home together, laugh or cry together, face the storms of life together and celebrate together.According to Bible love is kind, it does not envy.it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no records of wrongs and it always protects, always trusts, always hopes and love never fails.

Four types of love


·         Agape-the love of humanity

This love makes us sorrowful when we hear of a crisis in another nation or our own and that makes us to give our time or money to charity. It connected us with people we don’t know simply on basis of experiences we share as human beings.

·         Storage- family love

The love parent has for a child, or child has for a favorite aunt or family member.

·         Philia –shared experiences

The love we feel for people we strive with to achieve a shred goal, like our co-workers, players in soccer team or netball team, police in police force.

·         Eros-romantic and erotic love

It is based on sex and powerful magnetism

Sings of true love in a relationship


  • Give and take in love-you commit yourself in relationship without expectations of getting something back in return from your partner.
  • Pure happiness-just watching the person smile or laugh out fill you with joy and happiness even if you hard bad day.
  • Pain and anger-you get hurt when your love one is upset you but their actions never anger you.
  • Sacrifices-the other partner makes sacrifices for their happiness even if they may never realize it.
  • The right effort-you make an effort to improve the relationship and try to please your partner, by making them feel loved and special.
  • You can’t ever hurt them-when you are in love with someone you can’t hurt them emotionally or physically and true love makes you selfless.
  • You keep your promises-when you make a promise fulfill it and you moral conscience becomes very strong when it comes to this one special.
  • We- if you truly love your partner you see them as part of you or your life and their part of your future.
  • You share their burden-you share the burden of your partner even if you don’t really have to. If they are having issues to deal with you’re there to offer them a helping hand even you have your own problems to solve
  • Pride and jealousy-you become happy when they achieve something, even if its same thing you failed at and jealousy never enters the picture.
  • Suffering- you ‘be will to suffer just to see them happy.
  • Their perspective-in everything you do keep your lover in mind and think from their perspective.

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